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What’s wrong with a mouse.
What’s Wrong With A Mouse is a powerful and moving, one woman play by Vicki Dello Joio. Joio’s work is part of a larger show called 2 women 2 stories which ran at the New York Fringe and unfortunately is sold out for the remainder of it’s time here. Joio is also an author, her book is called The Way of Joy, and she would perform what would eventually become What’s wrong with a Mouse as an improvisation at book readings and various conferences she attended.
There she found that the piece resonated, particularly with queer folks, but also with anyone who has rejection issues. Her improvised performances went over so well that she decided to make it it’s own stand alone show. Joio performed her work all over Northern California, in conjunction with her spiritual lectures on The Way Of Joy. Then, after 4 years of improvising her story, she teamed up with her friend Merry Ross to create the show 2 Women 2 Stories; which has been touring this year at the San Diego Fringe, the New York Fringe, and next at the San Francisco Fringe.
What’s Wrong With A Mouse is a piece about rejection, reconciliation, death, and hope. It deals with Joio’s true story of being disowned by her father for being queer and her path back into a relationship with him. She was separated from her father entirely for 20 years, but then managed to reconcile with him during the last years of his life; a message of hope for all those who have been rejected by their family.
As the audience is led through the story Joio recalls her past, and touches on subjects that any person, but especially someone estranged from their family can relate to. The show touches on queer teen suicide due to being ostracized and unaccepted; which, while Joio’s anecdote took place over 40 years ago, family rejection, dehumanization, and queer suicide are still major problems happening today and this play forces the audience to remember this.
The response to the show was overwhelmingly positive, people hugging Joio and saying thank you for being here and thank you for telling your story. During the performance some audience members were in tears.
The entire show is moving, subjects like euthanasia, dementia, spirituality and what it means to be queer; it’s incredible that it all take place in a mere 45 minutes.
Interview to follow.
What was the inspiration behind the show?
My dad who disowned me; first when I was 18 when he found out I had a boyfriend who was going to move in with me. Then we reconciled about 10 years later and figured out I was queer and then he disowned me again, and we didn’t speak for 20 years. 10 years before he died I had done some work around how I communicate, thinking about defensiveness, and I kind of connected with him again.What inspired me was that there was such a huge transformation, particularly in the last year of his life, it was like turning something on it’s head.
I started doing the show originally as an improvisation. Then I published a book called The Way Of Joy. At the book launch, while I was doing a reading I decided to make the second half of the book reading an improv, there were about 250 people there and so I did the improv, and it had such a huge impact that I realized: this isn’t something that’s about my own personal growth, but it seems to hit something, particularly for queer people, but also really for anyone who has had what seem like long term irreconcilable differences with someone in their lives. {the show} shows that there is a possibility for redemption or reconciliation. I thought, if this is something that can really serve people to tell this story I’d love to.
How much of the current show is improvisation and how much is scripted
I would say it’s 98 to 95 percent scripted at this point, it evolved out of improvisation, so after 4 years of improvising it every time I did it I would be thinking, tweaking, whats not working what is working so I never actually sat down and wrote it as a script. I wrote it on my feet, I wrote it in front of people, and then eventually it got set into what is is right now. I do improvise a little bit, even just last night, but mostly it’s pretty set.
You’re here for the New York Fringe Festival and How many other cities have you been to with this show?
Well, Merry and I went to Santa Cruz Fringe Festival just last month, and the only other place we have performed together is in San Francisco. We’ve performed at a small venue there called “The Marsh” which is a breeding ground for new performances, and we also performed at “Stage Works” in San Francisco.
For me personally for What’s wrong with a Mouse, I used to call it Time Of Reckoning that was the origonal name which was named after a piece of music that my dad wrote. I’ve performed it all around Northern California, Oregon, Canada I can’t even remember.
So you have been touring it for a while?
I’m a Qigong teacher, I teach this system that I call The Way Of Joy. In Austen, I taught a class and then said “here’s something that would show you what this inner work did for me in terms of a really difficult situation I had with my father, then I would take a half hour and do the improv, just so people could see where the work could go. So it’s not like i’ve been touring as a theater performer, but i’ve been bringing theater into the other things that I do.
How has the reception been here in New York and San Francisco versus Middle america where there is less of a queer community?
It’s been unbelievable. I’ve been blow away, I’ve been surprised how receptive people are. When I’m talking about being queer, I’m not really doing a whole lot about queer culture or anything like that, i’m really just talking about my own personal experiences with my dad. I would say 98% of the people are super moved by it because even if they are not queer they have somebody queer in their family, or even if they don’t have any queer associates people still know what its like to be rejected or feel like your not being accepted for who you are. The word that audiences have been coming up with again and again is ‘universal’ I thought it was really personal, but I realize I’ve hit a chord that’s bigger than just me or even just the queer experience.
So to make it NY specific how Is the NY fringe fest, and what is next?
The experience has been awesome, we’ve had pretty full houses, but wether its been a full house or a ¾ house, the reception has been amazing. People have been incredibly receptive. My piece is a dramadey show. My show has funny stuff in it and the New York audience has seemed to gravitate more towards sad. Some audiences have laughed, its not heavy and pedantic, it moves along and its not just all the tragedy of it. So I’m finding the New York audience more serious, but super warm. After people will come up to me after with literally tears streaming down their face saying “Thank you so much, it really meant so much to me to hear that”. In fact the biggest compliment ever for me was that someone brought their 15 year old son and she said to me “My son turned to me after and said ‘that was so amazing, so wonderful, I feel so moved by that’”. So the fact that I could hit a 15 year old boy with the story of a 60+ year old woman dealing with her father felt like a success to me.
What’s the most important message you want to get across
I think the most important thing to me to say about it is, especially those who are youths who are having difficulty with their parents, or even if they are adults and they’re still hanging on to feeling like a victim of having been victimized; and I don’t mean that just as a mindset but people who have actually been hurt or abused for their sexual orientation – that there is a possibility of coming to a place of peace and power. Its important to give people that sense that there’s other ways to do things other than falling into the old paradigm of being severed; and if you are severed, because I was severed from my father for a total of 30 years still things can come back around.
I think for me as a person what’s most important is to offer people a little bit of candle in the night; that there is a possibility of coming to a place of power, even if it isn’t in direct connection to a parent or a rejecting person that there is a possibility of getting to a place where there is peace.
So what’s next
We’re going to the San Francisco fringe, we will be playing at the “Exit Theater” and we’re starting to talk about Edinburgh, and there are a lot of people who want me to come to Canada.